Troubles, losses are a given in life. However our response to suffering can be live giving or life draining.
Here is a very good resource if you want to learn more about grief.
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief-loss/coping-with-grief-and-loss.htm
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What is grief?
Grief is a natural response to loss. It’s the emotional suffering you feel when something or someone you love is taken away. The more significant the loss, the more intense the grief will be. You may associate grief with the death of a loved one—which is often the cause of the most intense type of grief—but any loss can cause grief, including:
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The more significant the loss, the more intense the grief. However, even subtle losses can lead to grief. For example, you might experience grief after moving away from home, graduating from college, changing jobs, selling your family home, or retiring from a career you loved. "
Want to learn more? Follow the link to read about states of grief, finding support and other helpful info.